Building Influence at Every Career Stage: A Conversation with Career Coach Katherine Cook

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Building Influence at Every Career Stage: A Conversation with Career Coach Katherine Cook

Season 6 of the Two Piers Podcast brings a grounded and pragmatic conversation between host Erica D’Eramo and Katherine Cook, a career coach who specializes in helping engineers chart meaningful, sustainable career paths. Katherine’s own journey—from engineering to technical marketing, product management, and ultimately coaching—sets the stage for a discussion packed with practical advice, candid reflections, and actionable insights for professionals at every level.

Rethinking Career Paths: From Engineer to Coach

Katherine didn’t set out to be a coach. Like many engineers, she followed a traditional technical trajectory—until the work stopped aligning with her strengths and interests. Her pivot began with a familiar tool: a spreadsheet.

By mapping out her skills, values, and the realities of potential roles, she discovered a pattern pointing her toward coaching. It was a methodical, data-driven way to choose a path that felt both exciting and viable.

Erica shared a similar experience from her own transition out of mergers and acquisitions. A spreadsheet helped her evaluate risks and opportunities before betting on herself and stepping into coaching. Despite different backgrounds, both found that engineering thinking—problem-solving, curiosity, structured decision-making—translates beautifully into coaching work.

The Power of Asking “Why” (And Getting Honest About Risk)

A recurring theme in Katherine’s career evolution is the importance of understanding why you want to make a change.

For her, asking “why” clarified priorities. Pairing that reflection with a spreadsheet allowed her to take a cold-eyed look at worst-case scenarios—financially, personally, and professionally. That realism made taking the leap far less scary.

Both Erica and Katherine noted that engineers are often conditioned to avoid risk, but career growth requires understanding which risks are tolerable and which are imagined. When you strip decisions down to facts, the next step becomes a lot clearer.

Why Networking Feels Hard (Especially for Engineers)

When engineers think about career advancement, “networking” often ranks somewhere between uncomfortable and pointless. Katherine has seen this repeatedly in her coaching practice.

To her, the problem is definition. Many engineers picture forced small talk at happy hours—something that feels artificial at best and unbearable at worst. But networking, she argues, is simply the act of building genuine relationships.

Erica echoed this: moving from technical work to people-facing leadership roles requires a shift in mindset. Career growth isn’t just about skill—it’s about connection.

Practical Ways to Build Relationships (Without Feeling Fake)

Katherine offered a refreshingly simple framework for networking:

Start small.

Say hello to someone in an elevator. Ask a real question at an event. Engage in low-stakes interactions to build comfort and confidence.

Follow your interests.

Networking isn’t exclusive to professional events. Join a knitting circle. Show up at a meetup that aligns with your hobbies. Shared interests make real conversation easier.

Use small talk as a bridge.

Not the endpoint. Just the doorway. By practicing small talk, engineers can build comfort with human connection and open space for more meaningful conversation.

Ask curious, genuine questions.

Engineers excel at problem-solving; that same curiosity makes for excellent relationship-building.

The Role of Relationships in Career Success

At the end of the day, relationships matter. More than most people want to admit.

Katherine cites the data: 75–80% of jobs are secured through networking, not applications alone. Inside organizations, relationships influence collaboration, visibility, and access to opportunity.

She also called out the intersectional realities many professionals navigate—particularly Black women in corporate environments, who often face stereotypes and structural barriers. For them, building diverse, supportive networks is not optional; it’s strategic.

Her advice:
Build multiple networks. Seek mentorship. Connect with influential advocates. You don’t have to navigate your career alone.

Navigating Career Challenges with Resilience

Both Erica and Katherine reflected on the importance of persistence in environments that may not always be supportive.

Katherine encourages clients to stay grounded in their skills and long-term goals. If the current environment is misaligned, keep building relationships and gathering experiences that position you for the next opportunity.

Erica added that communication—clear, effective, timely—is often the lever that determines whether someone is seen as influential and ready for more responsibility.

Resilience isn’t just internal fortitude. It’s also the network you build around yourself.

A Final Thought: Corporate America Isn’t a Meritocracy

When asked what she wants listeners to walk away with, Katherine didn’t hesitate:

Corporate America is not a meritocracy. Relationships matter.

Skill and performance are essential, but they’re not enough on their own. Understanding the landscape, building genuine relationships, and managing yourself effectively are all part of the career-advancement equation.

She closes with an invitation for listeners to connect with her on her website or via LinkedIn, where she shares resources and coaching support for engineers navigating career transitions.

You can find more about Katherine’s work here.